a bloody civil war had torn the country apart.

血腥的内战毁了这个国家。

stop crying - it's tearing me apart.

别哭了, 烦死我了。

I'll help you find it; I'll tear your house apart if I have to.

我一定帮你找到它; 需要的话, 我会把你的屋子翻个底朝天。