Only by trying to understand who you are building this relationship with can you know which actions are going to be deposits and which are going to be withdrawals in their emotional bank account.
只要努力理解你在和谁建立亲密关系，你就能知道什么样的行为是在增加储蓄，什么样的行为是在不断的支取。
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It is also the biggest and most secretive of British agencies, so Richard Aldrich's book is a welcome account of the body that inhabits a mysterious doughnut-shaped building outside Cheltenham.
This is because people contribute individually as if they were building the park for themselves, and don't account for the value they provide to their neighbors when they contribute.