disoblige
/ˌdɪsəˈblaɪdʒ/verb
with obj.
- offend (someone) by not acting in accordance with their wishes（因违反某人意愿而）得罪, 冒犯：
one didn't disoblige them if one could help it.
只要可能, 人们就不去得罪他们。
词源
late 16th cent. （in the sense 'release from an obligation'）： from French désobliger, based on Latin obligare 'oblige'.