Have you ever been able to win someone over who didn't like you without giving up an essential part of yourself?

你是否曾经能够在不放弃自己重要部分的情况下赢得一个不喜欢你的人的支持？

According to Dr Jutta, there are two main routes to winning someone over: a direct, fact-based approach or a 'peripheral route', which might be more effective.

根据Jutta博士的说法，要想说服一个人改变想法，主要有两种途径：采用直接的、基于事实的方法或走" 边缘路线" ，后者可能更有效。

" To win someone over" is to persuade or convince someone to like you, to have a good impression of you, a good opinion of you.

“拉拢” 就是说服或说服别人喜欢你， 对你有好感， 对你有好感。