To the narcissist, having the dependent ask, " What do I do? " is like feeding them candy, because now they've been handed the gamepad, and can play the dependent like a penny arcade machine.

对于自恋者来说，依赖者问他们“我该怎么办? ”就像是喂他们糖果，因为现在他们已经掌握了游戏手柄，可以像玩街机游戏一样玩弄依赖者。