con·ti·nence
noun/ˈkɒntɪnəns/
/ˈkɑːntɪnəns/
[uncountable]- (formal) the control of your feelings, especially your desire to have sex
（感情的）节制，自制；（尤指）性欲的节制 - the ability to control the bladder and bowels
（大小便的）自控能力，节制力
Word Originlate Middle English (in sense 1): from Old French, or from Latin continent- ‘holding together’. Sense 2 dates from the early 19th cent.