you can lead/take a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink
释义
you can lead/take a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink
(saying)you can give somebody the opportunity to do something, but you cannot force them to do it if they do not want to牵马近水易，逼马饮水难；机会可以给，做不做由人；老牛不饮水，不能强按头