tug of war
noun/ˌtʌɡ əv ˈwɔː(r)/
/ˌtʌɡ əv ˈwɔːr/
[singular, uncountable]- a sporting event in which two teams pull at opposite ends of a rope until one team drags the other over a line on the ground
拔河 - a situation in which two people or groups try very hard to get or keep the same thing
（两人或两组的）激烈争夺 - After the divorce they became involved in an emotional tug of war over the children.
离婚后，他们陷入了关于孩子的情感拉锯战。
- After the divorce they became involved in an emotional tug of war over the children.