gender bender
noun/ˈdʒendə bendə(r)/
/ˈdʒendər bendər/
(informal, sometimes offensive)- a person who dresses and behaves in a way that is not expected for somebody of their sex; this word is sometimes used in an offensive way as a criticism
穿着和行为方式与同性别不同的人；这个词有时会被用作攻击性的批评