He recognised that a key motivator for many people is the desire to feel important, the nourishment of their self-esteem.
他认为对许多人来讲，一个主要的激励因素就是自己受重视的愿望，也就是自尊心的满足。
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She may also feel a strong desire to do more for herself, and her career, after decades of caretaking, explains Brizendine.
在几十年的打理家庭之后，她也许有着强烈的愿望去为自己拼搏，为事业打拼，布里曾丹这样解释道。
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Although your desire to help people is laudable, if you find that you just can't respond to all requests within the time limit you've set for yourself, "don't feel guilty," Cenedella advises.