Rather, by looking at extreme cases, they can help usbest understand normal life.
相反，研究这些极端的例子，可以帮助我们理解正常的生活。
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Often we sense that we can get away with things around those who know usbest, who will love us regardless of our conduct.
我们常常会觉得，跟最了解我们、不管我们做了什么都会依然爱我们的人在一起，总是能免受惩罚。
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Here on the inside we have a model of ourselves that makes sense, but out there, what conclusions are those who know usbest drawing about our personalities?