Basically you want monitoring bodies so that people have to watch what they say at all times with the threat of being banned, and cannot start a private conversation with strangers unless its sanctioned, even then they will have to bite theyr tongue.

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Grow a pair, man up, fight them at theyr own game: if a 12 year old is knocking you for being female call him a virgin hehe.. try not to let it change your gameplay in any way, since at the end of the day thats all that they are trying to do.

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