It is not good to accept the person of the wicked, to overthrow the righteous in judgment.

However, if you think about who might best be able to help with a task and then specifically ask that person for help, your odds of getting him or her to accept the task increase dramatically.

Finally, imagine what it would be like to allow yourself to accept that these elements are inside of you - part of you, not some foreign features that are in the other person.