It's way too easy takesomethingpersonally and think behavior is about us, when it is really about the other person.
我们很容易把事情私人化，并认为行为和自己有关，其实那是别人的事情。
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Your conclusion gives your reader something to take away that will help them see things differently or appreciate your topic in personally relevant ways.
你的结论需要给读者收获，帮助他们看到不同的、新鲜的东西，或者读者由于个人的关注点而感谢你的论述。
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But when the person who says something which you takepersonally knows you, and knows you well, you can't hide it.