The very first thing is to disengage and allow some time for both of you tosimmerdown and reflect.
第一件事就是放开并给彼此一些时间来平息和思考。
2
Combine miso, sake, mirin, and sugar in a small saucepan. Bring just to a boil, dial down the heat and simmer gently for about 20 minutes, or until it thickens a bit.
将味噌、清酒、味醂和糖同放一个小锅里,煮至刚开,小火焖煮大约20分钟,或煮到销稠即可。
3
When it start to boil, turn down the heat and let the sauce simmer.