Praise won for mastering a skill suddenly puts one in the position of having everything to lose.
因掌握一项技能而赢得赞美会让人突然陷入失去一切的境地。
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For people in any position of authority the ability to say no is the most important skill there is.
对于处在任何权力位置上的人而言，说“不”的能力是最重要的技巧。
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She notes that people tell themselves lies all the time, about why they didn't get promoted, their level of skill, or perhaps the security of their current position.