Because anger is often fueled by guilt and shame, making people feel bad about their behavior doesn't work either-it reinforces the angry person's sense of victimhood.
因为愤怒常因内疚、羞愧这样的情绪火上浇油，使人们对自己的行为大为不满，更加深了发怒人的羞愧情绪。
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The result is a refreshingly open-ended view of contemporary music-making that puts many of his predecessors, Burney among them, to shame.
结果便是他带给读者的清新自由的现代音乐创作观。 让他的许多前辈（伯尼居其中）不能望其项背。
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There is no shame in making the occasional stupid decision; that's part of being human.