This will help you feel less like a bystander and more like a key participant in the first few days of your baby's life.
这会减少你的“旁观者”感觉，让你在新生命的开始便成为一个举足轻重的角色。
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New research in the Journal of Social Psychology takes on this task, looking at the factors that dispose a bystander against bullying victims, and what might encourage them to step in and help.
In very rare cases you may receive information from a bystander who wants to help but is afraid to do so publicly for fear of retribution - and fear of becoming the next target.