Even a hint that something is wrong upsets you so much that you are unable to calm down until you get a clear indication from your partner that the relationship is safe.
Make your partner feel secure and safe with you, make it easier for them to express tenderness towards you, with your own tender actions.
安全感—让你的伴侣觉得和你在一起很安全，你自己的温暖行为会让对方更容易表达对你的温暖。
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S is for Safety – Make your partner feel secure and safe with you, make it easier for them to express tenderness towards you, with your own tender actions.