If reconciliation is impossible or one of you has re-married, then you're going to need to do everything in your power to help your son adjust.
如果复婚无望，或者你们俩人中有一个已经再婚了。那么你们就要尽力帮助儿子来适应这种生活。
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Meanwhile, men who were divorced at the outset showed a general decline in fitness over time -- but the drop was steepest among those who got re-married.