Yet if someone has a different philosophy of child-rearing, we instantly feel judged and lashback.
是的如果有人有一套与众不同的育儿哲学，我们会马上判断、抨击它。
2
If your first reaction is to lashback at the person giving the criticism, or to become defensive, take a minute before reacting at all.
如果你的第一反应是对批判你的人予以反击，或者变得充满防御性，请稍等一会再作出反应。
3
I had an irrational flash of hating those people in the back of wanting to lash out but all that really mattered was keeping my body between Fan Ping and the railing in case he made another lunge.