In addition, should not be too openaffair, as far as possible to resolve the confusion encountered, do not rely on others.
另外，不要过分公开恋情，遇到困惑尽量自己解决，不要依赖他人。
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Having worked tirelessly to achieve a position of gentlemanly respectability, neither a divorce nor an openaffair was an option.
在不知疲倦地辛勤工作换来了体面的绅士身份后，不管是离婚还是出轨被曝光都不是明智的行为。
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Why, in other words, will you be settling for a secret affair with a friend, rather than an open relationship? What does she lack that you don't want to go all the way?