Ben Ali Ong: I didn't mean to bring that into my work but no one is above their time, everyone takes influence from their life.

She told me she had pulled away from him several times in real life because every time she let herself get close to him, he could be mean and cold.

And by love, they mean strong family bonds, a sense of a support system, spending time with each other (getting hugs, smiles, kisses), and having a great partner in life also helped.