Happy people know that they must exercise mastery in their lives, show control in their life in order to guard against feelings of being helpless and victims.
快乐的人都明白，他们必须做生活的主人，把握好自己的生活，以免产生无助无奈和受害者的情绪。
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This of course necessitates a relationship to life which releases all illusions of control yet recognizes innate power and mastery of choice in perception.
这当然需要释放我们在关系中的控制幻象，认出那初始的力量，觉知地做出选择的精湛能力。
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It is hardly difficult to understand the close relationship between these two as no instruction can escape from the control and mastery of The Times.