I asked her gently, and as non-judgmentally as I could, whether she wanted to kill me because I was a foreigner.
我尽量保持客观，温和地问她是否会因为我是一名外国人而想要杀了我。
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The other is what's known rather judgmentally among zoologists as a "sneak," a small cuttlefish who changes his color and appearance to look like a female.
If you observe your own behavior non-judgmentally, but with the constant desire to improve, you will get much farther than if you berate yourself, or excuse or justify your shortcomings.