But the child is born with a built-in desire to please the parents and the wise parent USES this to gently guide the child along the paths of courtesy.
但是孩子具有希望父母愉悦的天性，睿智的父母会运用孩子的这点去引导他们学会以礼待人。
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Uniquely though, the child seems to gently hold one of the threads in his hands, as if this uncommonly wise child is aware of the complex and burdensome world he has been born into.