Instead of connecting with every person's problems, let yourself feel whether someone really needs your attention, or whether the best gift you can give might be a little abruptness.
不要去关心每个人的麻烦，而是让自己感受别人是否是需要你的关注；也许你能给予的最好礼物是一点鲁莽。
2
Just like someone else in time of need — you have to comfort him, give him the best, give him the best support and love, and spoil him.
就像当别人有需要时，你必须安慰他，给他最好的、给他最大支持和爱心、宠他一下。
3
Do you really want give the best of yourself away to someone who takes what they can as they poison you?