In other words, do all of the above even if you are hurt, angry or depressed, Huebner says: "Fake it until you make it."
也就是说，即使你被伤害、生气或者低落，也要做到以上。Huebner说：“在你能做到之前先假装吧。”
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Not everyone gets to "OK" quickly, Huebner says, but "we're trying to get parents to react a little bit better, a little bit sooner."
并不是所有人都能那么快“好起来”，Huebner说，但是“我们尽力让父母的反应能更好更快一些。”
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He Baoluo (Paul Huebner) came to China to study Chinese language and music after asuccessful career in Los Angeles teaching piano to mostly Chinese-American students.