He was unabashed in his mannerisms a man who seemed to live so fully inside this hexed world of suicide that he had little time for polish or polite chitchat or getting-to-know-you.

Take inspiration from theObamas and call it "date night." Think back to when you and your spouseactually were dating and try to recapture some of those spontaneous, getting-to-know-you moments.

I like everything here, but more important, I enjoyed meeting and talking to you, getting to know you, and sharing the memorable time together.