When someone in another car cuts you off on the highway, your reflexive thought may be, That jerk! He could have hit me! I can't let him get away with that! The more you stew, the angrier you get.
It is only when they getoff the plane and compare their watches withsomeone who has been stationary relative to them that they notice a difference.
只有当他们离开飞机与某个原来静止的人比较一下手表的时候他们才发现不同之处。
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Or just get together withsomeone you love and talk about something else entirely, just to take your mind off whatever is haunting you, give it a break.