"You can picture the family gathering in the hospital room saying, 'This is what dad would have wanted'," says David Handler, an estate planner.

While the wedding planner is busy organising vendors and the traditional bridesmaids are getting themselves ready for the big day, Tiffany runs errands for the bride and deals with her family.

For example, if you love to plan family events, consider taking on part-time work as a party planner;