if you don't mind my saying so/if you don't mind me askingADVISEused when you are saying or asking something that you think might offend someone 如果你不介意我这么说/这么问的话 You’re looking tired, if you don’t mind my saying so. 你看起来很累了,如果你不介意我这么说的话。
How old are you, if you don’t mind me asking? 如果你不见怪的话,我可以问问你多大了吗?
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