He became violent and abusive toward Ben's mother.

他对本的妈妈动起粗来。

One in eight women lives in an abusive relationship.

每八位女性中就有一位遭受伴侣的虐待。

...her cruel and abusive husband.

她残酷暴虐的丈夫

He was alleged to have used abusive language.

他被指称使用过侮辱性语言。